5 Warning Signs You Might be a Blogcrastinator

blogcrastination (bl?g- kras - tuh -ney-sh uh n) — the deferment of writing a blog post to a later time; often a mechanism for coping with anxiety. If you’ve been a blogger for long, you know how ugly blogcrastination can be. It disrupts your goals, stifles your spirit, and makes you second guess your decisions. It can take you from writing a post every day to letting days, weeks, or even months go by without writing. It can even make you question whether you’re really cut out for blogging. I know because I’ve been there, and the good news is that there is a way through it. But first, you’ll need to accept that you are a blogcrastinator (this can be difficult and requires strength of character) and begin to develop an awareness of its telltale signs. See if you can recognize them in yourself: 1. You keep postponing If this is you, you sound a bit like Shakespeare’s Macbeth: “Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow . . .” The thing is, you honestly do intend to get writing. This afternoon or tomorrow morning or this weekend . . . Just not right now. First, you have to finish six loads of laundry, choose the décor for your new home office, and get to inbox zero. After that, blogging is definitely at the top of your priority list. Or so you keep telling yourself. Treatment Plan : Give yourself a series of very short time slots in which to write, interspersed with other activities. Do not make a big deal of this. Convince yourself it’s not in the least important, and you can do it in small chunks. Remember, you’re just jotting down a few sentences here and there. (Nudge, nudge, wink, wink.) 2. You push so hard it hurts Your method of writing is to power on through, pounding your brain against the paragraphs over and over until you’re done with the piece, no matter what. In fact, you probably don’t call yourself a blogcrastinator at all, because you do finish posts . . . when you can bring yourself to sit down and write. The problem is, writing is so painful that you can’t bring yourself to do it very often. Treatment Plan : The prescription for this is simple: take a break for a few minutes! Pay attention to how you feel, and when the writing starts to feel like dragging a boulder uphill, stop. Preferably do something physical, like taking a brisk walk or putting away the dishes, anything to get out of your mind and into your body. This will let your creative faculties relax and breathe. If you make this approach a habit, you may be surprised at how darn enjoyable writing can be. 3. You are easily distracted This symptom wears two cunning disguises. The first lets you distract yourself with other ways of “working on” your blog, such as checking your site stats, tweaking your theme, spending four hours in Flickr Creative Commons looking for a killer post image , or (the most insidious distraction of all) doing research for your posts. The second disguise appears when things other than your blog or website or home life distract you. Because God only knows what will happen if you don’t get that roof reshingled today . Treatment Plan : You’re probably seeing blog posts as something you “have to” write. Try reframing them as an “I want to” or, even better, an “I get to.” Think about it. How many pursuits require such low overhead and so little equipment (hmm, computer, brain, and fingers — and the fingers are optional), and let you share so much with the entire world? Pretty cool when you stop to consider it. 4. You’re constantly generating ideas for posts Blogcrastination of this type can be a result of either fear or fun. If it’s the former, you’re perpetually jotting down ideas for future posts because this allows you to avoid the scary process of actually writing any. If the latter, you simply get off on brainstorming — it’s play to you. Unfortunately, it doesn’t get those posts written. Treatment Plan : Use your idea-generating ability to outline your next blog post as if it was a series of mini-posts. Pick a topic from your list of ideas, and then jot down bullet points or subheads for what it needs to include. Eventually you’ll have the skeleton of the post, and all you’ll need to do is go through and insert some connecting words and phrases. 5. You’re a chatter, not a writer You put the “social” in media. In your world, “twit” is not an insult and is always followed by “-er,” and you like nothing more than posting in forums and commenting on other people’s blogs. After all, it’s the way to make friends and organically grow your own following, right? And you truly do get a lot from the conversation. In fact, sometimes you think you do your best writing in those other places. Sadly, sometimes it’s your only writing. Treatment Plan : Turn those detailed comments, forum posts, and twitter conversation into blog posts. Use the same energy, building off the ideas of others; just funnel it into your blog instead. That way, you’re still getting to talk, and you’re building your blog at the same time. Now, was that so bad? Remember, blogcrastination can be overcome, and the pain it causes can be a thing of the past. The first step is to rediscover how much you can enjoy writing. We are all here with you. Okay, everyone, time for a group hug . About the Author: Michelle Russell publishes the blog Practice Makes Imperfect , where she blogcrastinates regularly, as well as spending plenty of quality time on Twitter . With superninja Wendy Cholbi, she also helps brand-new bloggers get their WordPress blogs up and running.

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The Secret Ingredient to an Irresistible Blog

Things were going pretty well until I bit into my hamburger. Ow. Something was really wrong. “Are you okay?” asked my date. My eyes started watering. I was so confused, but I nodded. I bit down harder and suddenly the hamburger flew out of my hands. I’ve never been so bewildered in my life. Only when I held my hand up did the sorry truth stare us in the face. Somehow, my left ring finger had slipped inside the bun of that burger. I bit down on it. And when it hurt, the cause wasn’t immediately obvious, so I bit down harder . . . so hard I forced myself to drop the hamburger. When I realized what had happened, I laughed really hard. She didn’t. “Aren’t you embarrassed?” she asked. “Yeah,” I said, nodding, “but this is kind of how it is. And this stuff can’t be taught.” Then I finished the hamburger in dainty bites, making sure that no other errant appendages strayed between the bread. “It must be kind of liberating to know that,” she said. In a non-glorious footnote, the rest of that date went exactly nowhere. But authentically idiotic is still authentic, which brings us to the point today: There are things that bloggers can and can’t be taught As my traffic climbed from modest to less-modest, other bloggers began asking me if I could help them build their own blog traffic. At first, I wasn’t sure I could, even if I wanted to. But I decided I’d try. Before I was willing to work with someone, I asked one question: Why do you think I can help you? Their answers told me a lot. Not just about their expectations and thought processes, but about a lot of what’s wrong with the blogging mindset in general. A few answers I’ve gotten You love what you do and can help me love what I do You know where you’re going and I want to go to the same place You’re passionate and I think that might rub off on me What I didn’t hear from them was: I love what I do and think you could help me do it better Here’s where I want to go and I’m not sure how to get there I’m passionate about this idea and I want to bounce some ideas off another passionate person Maybe that’s silly of me, but those are questions I could have approached more easily. By the way, I’ve decided I’m not a very good coach and I doubt I’ll do this again. In fact, I think I suck. Don’t hire me. (OK — I’m actually really good at some things. But I’m writing this post as a snapshot of this experience, not a sales pitch.) Let’s take a look at those answers I received. “You love what you do” I do, but you cannot pay someone else to help you love something in the way they love it. I love blogging, but I write my blog, not anyone else’s. And I don’t play for stakes, I play for fun. I would not love another project as much. How do I know? Because I didn’t pick another project. If you are seeking help with your blog, there is nothing wrong with trying to take the steps of someone who has achieved what you want. Why else would you be reading Copyblogger today? But do not assume that their goals resemble your goals, even if they have numbers you would like to have. “You know where you’re going” No I don’t, other than up. I know that I will publish a post every day and I will try to do lots of guest posts. I will be nice and helpful to everyone I can, lift a bunch of heavy stuff, and try to laugh a lot. That’s what I know, that’s what I’ve done, that’s what I’ll do until it’s not fun anymore. Whenever someone has had some success, many of us — me included — assume that the success is the result of a plan. That’s not always true. Dumb luck can play its role in anyone’s good fortune. Just keep an open mind. There are a lot of variables that go into whatever we decide “success” is. “You’re passionate” Once I took a mambo class taught by a guy whose passion nearly melted us all. He was like a combination of Beto from the Zumba commercials and Pepe Le Pew. He was amorous, passionate, and all swiveling hips. I love dancing, but I didn’t leave the class with that guy’s passion for mambo. But he tried! The secret ingredient to a great blog We like to give authority and credibility to other people. We want other people to have the answers. Sometimes this creates brilliant coaches who are worth every penny. I have no doubt that if I hired Naomi Dunford and I had a plan, she could help me execute it. But sometimes our need for answers spawns “gurus” who are freaking travesties of ethics and exploitation. So what should you do to make your blog better? Now that I’m done writing this post, here’s how I’m feeling: First: If a consultant out there says “I can help you love writing,” or “I can help you write like me,” or “I can teach you passion,” the quickest way to escape their clutches is with a perfectly timed throat-strike. (Don’t bother aiming for the groin — cowards and exploiters have no feelings down there). It’s great to get help and advice if you need it. But don’t expect anyone to do all the thinking for you. And don’t trust anyone who tells you he can or will. Second: However much advice you may get along the way, there is one secret ingredient to the great blog recipe. And that secret ingredient is you. Finally: There’s only one test that really matters, and that can be solved over lunch: Can your consultant eat a hamburger without harming himself? About the Author: Josh Hanagarne is the twitchy giant behind World’s Strongest Librarian , a blog about living with Tourette’s Syndrome, kettlebells, book recommendations, buying pants when you’re 6’8”, old-time strongman training, and much more. Please subscribe to Josh’s RSS Updates to stay in touch.

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